Planet Waves Horoscopes: December 2013 Horoscopes
December is always a good time to take stock of the year that's behind us and to look forward to the year ahead. As 2013 comes to a close, Astrologer Eric Francis tells us that this December is an invitation to get clear about the meaning of the people in your life and work to create some much-needed balance in the days to come. For a more thorough explanation of this month's astrology, see December 2013: The Mars Effect.
Monthly Horoscope for December 2013
Aries (March 20-April 19)
We live in a time when everything comes down to power. Every question, action taken, or choice made becomes a question of power over others, or whether an individual has the strength to stand up to it. It would be one thing if this were just the king and his men. It's now every major corporation and countless events that unfold on the individual and intimate levels of existence. Sex becomes a question of rape. Food becomes a matter of mass poisoning. Rule One is: You do it if you can. This comes at a price, which is self-mastery. As long as the name of society's game is domination of others, we will overlook that the essential mission of arriving on Earth in a body is to be the master of your consciousness, your choices, and, to the greatest extent possible, your destiny. That theme comes into focus now, and as your ruling planet Mars moves into Libra, and then into aspect with the historic Uranus-Pluto square, this theme will remain in focus for the foreseeable future. It is true that many forces in your personality are leading you to feel less than stable, though that is precisely what you must learn to harvest and focus with discipline and a true commitment to self-reinvention, clarity, and the ability to direct your will.
Taurus (April 19-May 20)
You are right in that zone where self-respect and respect for authority merge into the same thing. You have wanted and indeed needed to level the playing field of life for a long time, to experience some sense of your own presence with other talented people on a peer-to-peer level. What you are learning is that which facilitates the experience comes from you. It's your recognition of your own gifts and your own potential that allows you to recognize the talent and leadership of others as something inherently human rather than mythical or supernatural. If you perceive authority as a leadership quality, as aptitude, and as a hard-won achievement, you will be more inclined to be its student and to crave cultivating those same qualities in yourself. What you're about to experience is an opportunity to dismantle and understand the familial experiences that led you in the other direction—to mystify those who seemed powerful; to distance yourself from them; to feel anything but equal. As you identify and discard various internalized structures, especially the authority structures of your family, you will free up energy, time, and space. That will come in handy as you discover not only talents, but also a profound desire to make your contribution to society.
Gemini (May 20-June 21)
It is time for you to think bigger, which means with a long-range vision and focusing your sense of mission. This is setting a high standard in a world where 140-character messages by rank idiots make world news, but so be it. Over the next few weeks, information is likely to come through that has nothing to do with your work-a-day world, your circle of friends, or any of your usual patterns of conversation. You will be getting big-picture information at the same time you experience a kind of earthquake around the values that guide your life. Go deeper, not for an hour or for a special occasion, but rather take your whole existence into the realm of active meaning. When you recognize that something you feel or think is true, or when you have an experience that changes you, start making decisions—immediately—based on what you have learned or discovered. Stop yourself from making excuses not to. It would be helpful if you were to take notes, by which I mean carry a notebook and use it, because there are some observations you will make that evade memory. These are things you will want to remember, indeed, things for which you may have searched a lifetime.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
You may notice that certain people you are intimate with are willing to go places you never imagined they would. That's a cosmic signal that you are ready to go places that you never dreamed of, both in intimate situations and ordinary life. This is not a passing trend. You are embarking on one of the most significant phases of your life, when it comes to your ability to deepen your intimacy, your capacity for empathy, and most of all, for experiencing some emotional balance in your relationships with others. While it may not be possible to insist that others know where you're coming from at all times, you can understand yourself in the context of another person's life, which is almost as good. A perceptive ability is opening up, and that is allowing you to see how others see you and to sense who you are to them. Before long, you will be able to time-travel with this experience, and look back over the course of your life, and benefit from the awareness of how others experienced you, even when you were a child. This depth of understanding will help you adjust your emotional reality, and experience the feeling of actually belonging in the world. That you do is a true fact. To feel that way is a privilege.
Leo (July 22-August 23)
You may feel like you've got an unusual amount of work piled on you. However, the way to think of this is as approaching a truly significant achievement. There may be something you've wanted to accomplish for years, and you now have that potential. It will help if you get busywork out of the way, avoid running around on errands or doing everyone else's job. That is to say, keep yourself on a routine of constantly prioritizing and reassessing your priority scheme. The point of this, if it's not obvious, is to eliminate as many unnecessary activities as possible and direct your energy to what you know matters. If you are uncertain, knock it down the priority list and focus on what you are confident you want to do or know you must accomplish. One thing I can tell you is that, by thinking things through and letting your mind do most of the work, you can spare yourself a lot of pointless effort and wasted time. I don't mean worrying, which you're better at than you let on. I mean thinking of your goals, desires, and the circumstances of your life as puzzles you want to solve, and getting your thoughts together before you take action. A sketch on the back of an envelope may be enough.
Virgo (August 23-September 22)
Authentic creativity requires meltdowns, breakdowns, risks taken, the collapse of the known order and, sooner or later, total submission to the creative process. Well, not the creative process, but your process of birthing yourself into a new stage of your existence, which happens in tandem with what you create. As you go through this, you may have the sensation of betraying authority. That, in turn, could lead to the insidious feeling of guilt, intermingled with the pleasure of creation, liberation, or sex, as if what you are doing is "so right, but so wrong." Here is a clue: It cannot be both. The right and the wrong you perceive are servants of different masters. So you need to ask yourself: Who is the inner voice expressing disapproval (in the form of guilt or fear) and what is the source of the feeling that you really are expressing or exploring something meaningful? All the art in the world leads to this one theme: Who has authority for the creation of your life and the expression of your life force? If it is "someone else," then it would make perfect sense for you to feel bad about it. If it's you, then it makes perfect sense for you to feel beautiful, perhaps a little shaken up, vulnerable, and rather unusual.
Libra (September 22-October 23)
Events of this month can serve either as a hologram or miniature model for what you can do with yourself during the coming year or, alternately, as an example of what you do not want. There's likely to be some mix of the two, though I am inclined to think that you are about to discover the benefits of actually asserting yourself. I suggest you do this in your own style (well, that's always what you do), but don't let the concept of style include any form of passivity, compromise before the conversation, or getting snagged up in your contemplation/indecision thing. The idea here is to be bold and take a chance. This is where what I will call the reverb factor comes in. When you assert yourself, you're likely to get a little echo back—often in the form of some disapproval from someone. This verges on being a universal phenomenon, and it's a potential stumbling point for those at a new phase of experimenting with their will and influence. The problem is that it's enough to keep most people in their shell, silencing their opinions or otherwise refusing to ruffle feathers. Yet overcoming this seems to be the whole point of your astrology this month, and the phenomenon lasts well into next summer. Start the ruffling now and you'll get some valuable practice.
Scorpio (October 23-November 22)
If you over-focus on the concept of sex in one relationship, you may miss the point of the whole human sexual experiment. That point (the little arrow on the Scorpio symbol) is how every aspect of life is fundamentally creative; how creativity always requires some transformation or movement of resources (which could be called "destructive" to the form that existed before); and that any form of sex, or art, or expression will unquestionably offend someone, somewhere. Therefore, that someone may be offended by some aspect of your personal expression cannot be a valid criteria for determining the appropriateness of something. Once you catch that little riff, you will become a revolutionary, particularly where the stuffy, rigid thought-forms of your parents or other caregivers are concerned. Those shadow figures are unlikely ever to give you direct permission to exist. So I suggest you open your aperture, open your mind, and allow experience to happen. Daring to express yourself passionately, against the rules, is the one dependable thing that will crack all the stifling patterns that have you doing the box step—not waiting for permission or approval from anyone. As Ginsberg suggested, Art recalls the memory / of [your] true existence / to whoever has forgotten / that Being is the one thing / all the universe shouts.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 22)
The more you retreat, the more you're putting yourself into position for maximum contact and action. It may seem like a paradox; however, we both know you're determined to experience those very things, despite what appears to be a certain emotional hesitancy. But when the spark meets the fuel, your specific frame of mind will not make a difference, except for how much fun you have when the time comes. So whatever you are doing with your emotional energy, however you feel about putting yourself forward and embracing your feelings and those of others, I suggest you count yourself as moving in the direction of what you know you want the most, whether you think you're doing it or not. You are in a rare, beautiful position to learn the nature of trust where intimate exchanges are concerned. Part of that trust involves understanding that you have the power to opt in and also to opt out. This state of being often exists for you only in potential; only right now that potential is more like low-hanging fruit. I recognize that you don't necessarily want to get overly caught up in someone else's world, and in that you have options. You know that every relationship involves taking a chance. What is not said often enough is that not daring also involves a risk as well.
Capricorn (December 22-January 20)
You are rapidly moving toward a breakthrough. Since this is something you have initiated but cannot control, I suggest focusing on aligning your intentions with your actions, every single time you make a move. It is debatable whether control even exists. What you can be certain exists is the potential to guide your existence and your creative power one step at a time, one decision at a time, in a series of conscious steps. This is a little like rock climbing or rafting or any other noncompetitive sport. You know your goal, you have your basic approach, and then you deal with the questions and challenges of the moment in the moment you are living them. This is the most efficient—and fun—way to get to your destination. It's also the best way, at the moment, to align your life with what you want. I am suggesting this as an alternate to control dramas, resistance, power struggles, and other huge wastes of energy and focusing power. Your chart is set up for incremental progress that all of a sudden manifests as a kind of crest that feels like you suddenly overcame some huge obstacle; really, all you can ever do is look forward and take one step at a time.
Aquarius (January 20-February 19)
Rather than project your values onto a "cause" or going overboard to express your devotion to a relationship, I suggest you take an even bolder step: embody what matters to you the most. We all know the human tendency to have high ideals in some abstract dimension—and those born under your sign are especially susceptible. You can apply this to any desire to become a better person, or the notion that you will accomplish something great in the future. I suggest you skip the whole "becoming" thing and go right into being. This may seem like a leap, but really, it's a kind of un-leap. Try gathering your existence, your values, your desires into the present moment, and notice how you feel, and where you are. I know you may be experiencing a powerful need to lead by example, which implies demonstrating a level of certainty. I would propose that certainty is the last thing you want now, and the last thing that's in the stars. You are however in a moment of dancing with some rich, fertile uncertainty, which will do more to nourish you than any goal-setting or devotion to anything outside yourself. Stay with the feeling and have faith what it will give birth to, in each moment as you live it.
Pisces (February 19-March 20)
Remind yourself at all times, whenever you need to, that you are the one who directs the shape and flow of your life. More significantly, you provide the shape and color to the vital force that comes through you. The more you honor these ideas, the more influence you will have over your life. Yet they will not be real to you until you put them into practice, and get some experience doing so. This will necessitate a change of orientation from focusing primarily on the activity and relationships in your life, to your actual existence. Your core relationship is to yourself, though I assure you that this violates every rule of our society—this, despite the prevalence of narcissism and self-obsession, which has nothing to do with the concept of a core relationship. Narcissism is a mockery, and in truth it's always about someone else. One of the biggest and best favors you can do for yourself this month and for the coming year is to focus your vision. Have some concept of what you want to be doing, and then refine it regularly as you process additional experiences and information. This is not merely a psychological exercise; it's working with a manifestation principle. You can be a passive recipient of your experience, or you can vision yourself into existence.
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