Monthly Horoscope for November 2013
Aries (March 20-April 19)
Driving is a metaphor for life. Notice the road conditions at all times, make sure you're in good shape to be behind the wheel, and most important, stay in your lane. You might also want to keep track of whether you're coming or going. I know that's a funny old expression that few people think about, but I do mean knowing whether you're going toward something or away from it; whether you're approaching or avoiding, and why. The approach/avoid thing seems to involve something you're simultaneously to remember and to forget. The astrological syntax translates to: "Question your mother's logic about sex." I think when questioning the teaching of our parents, or of anyone, it helps to extend their logic and see where it would take you if you went the whole distance with it. You are likely to find that it's not even vaguely suited to guide you through where you are in your most intimate relationships. That logic, such as it is, was shattered a long time ago, though you may still be maintaining some loyalty to it. In truth, you're at an absolutely unique crossroads in your life, and you may feel you have to make a huge decision right now. I don't think that is true. Where there is a commitment, it has already been made. Where one is lacking, that much will be obvious.
Gemini (May 20-June 21)
Do you feel like you're trying to pass some kind of psychic kidney stone? Thankfully, unlike the physical body, the spiritual body has the ability to process large "objects" in a way that doesn't force them through tiny openings. Indeed, however large this thing you need to purge yourself of is, you have the ability to move it along and send it on its way. Your astrology can be illustrated with some ideas from homeopathy, a branch of medicine more people deserve to know about. When it works, homeopathy seems like magic, and compared to other forms of medicine, there's relatively little the patient has to endure. But two things are necessary. The price of admission to homeopathic healing is admission—revealing to the practitioner what you're experiencing, in intimate detail. That translates to revealing something to yourself, with scrupulous honesty, ongoing, never satisfied that you've reached the bottom. The second qualification of homeopathy is the healing crisis; in releasing old pain, it must come to the surface. Going through that consciously is a necessary prerequisite to feeling good and being healthy. Honesty and awareness—perhaps the two things most lacking in our world now, and the fact that they're missing—is one of the most prevalent causes of sickness. What passes for healing is usually denial and suppression of the symptoms. You're ready for the real thing.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Has the whole sex thing been a little weird, whether mired in karma, needlessly complex, or seemingly nonexistent? You may find the topic annoying and wish it would go away, or feel some deep need, wishing something would actually happen. Count yourself lucky if you're experiencing this on the level of "you can't always get what you want, but you can get what you need"—though where sex is concerned, that's pretty boring. By sex, I mean both the experience and the relationships in which it occurs, the agreements involved and what is exchanged. Saturn has been in Scorpio, your solar 5th house, for a year, and it's leading you to be more careful, or putting the brakes on your adventures. At the same time, Saturn points us in the direction of authentic necessity and always gives more than it takes away. You have reached a kind of crux point on whatever it is that you're going through; events of the next few weeks are likely to come with a bold transformation, and to reveal the deeper contents of your feelings. The essence of Saturn in this area of your chart is about taking total responsibility for your sexuality and for what you exchange with others. Mercury retrograde is about finding the intersection of your fantasies and your reality. The eclipse is the catalyst that starts the reaction—and an X factor.
Leo (July 22-Aug. 23)
The central question of this month's solar eclipse is safety—when and where you feel grounded and confident of your environment. While this may seem to be about having a dry roof, food to eat, and dependable companionship, the question quickly slips into how you feel about yourself. Self-criticism is one of the most direct pathways into feeling threatened or unpleasantly vulnerable. Often, self-critique is projected onto others, which is designed to vent pressure. However, projecting it onto a relationship turns out to be just as painful. How safe you feel reflects how much you like yourself. If you feel unsafe in your environment for direct reasons you can document, that, too, may be a reflection of how you feel about yourself. Whatever may be the case, you are in a phase where you can take some giant steps toward learning about self-esteem. The planets are aligned perfectly so you may learn from the mistakes of others. We live in a time in history when the way most products are sold is to make people feel inadequate. Legions of manipulation artists are paid an ocean of money to "educate" us how horrid we allegedly are, and charge us money to feel better. Often, we try to con ourselves using similar means. It does not work. If you think you need a reason to feel good about yourself, I suggest you go deeper.
Virgo (August 23-September 22)
You stand to benefit significantly from all manner of weird events that unfold over the next month or so. It may not seem that way, though I suggest the best strategy is to maintain your independence and stay out of the fray—until you notice that it's the perfect time to make your move. The way the astrology looks, that's going to be in the later innings; let the adventures, misadventures, games, and dramas develop for a while, as you pull back and get the wide view. This is another way of saying maintain your independence, which may feel like being antisocial. What is currently passing for social among certain people you know isn't exactly social, either—the more congenial mode (in the immortal words of the Grateful Dead) is to "take a step back/take another step back." Give people space to be themselves, and give yourself space to be yourself. Perspective is everything. Observe the action from all angles. Yes, there are several ways to read the astrology, indicating how personally you could take things, but you'll feel silly if you take things personally and then discover in the end that it had nothing to do with you. Meanwhile, be optimistic. My dog-friend Jonah is a Virgo and whenever there's any activity in the kitchen, he's standing there wagging his tail. I would call that faithful expectancy.
Libra (September 22-October 23)
There is a cosmic feeling to your charts right now, as if you encounter some spiritual intervention that helps you work out an emotional knot you've been carrying around nearly forever. The way the picture looks, you've been drawn with increasing intensity to focus on a group of issues that seemed daunting and even impossible to address, not knowing how you would do it. Yet at a certain point, you seem to have suspended doubt, and then soon after that, you seem to have made a commitment to yourself. That was akin to the choice to make an investment in yourself. The thing with an investment is that it's never a sure thing. You have to put up a lot of energy (in various forms, including emotions and money) before you get a return. Then, that return might be something entirely different than you are expecting (which seems to hold true for both business investments and for deeply personal ones). It looks like something is about to come to fruition. I will say this, however: the die is not cast. Your imagination will have an influence, though when you go there, you may experience some fear. Consider that fear a psychological response to the expression of your potential power. If you feel guilt, consider that direct evidence that you're moving in the right direction—that of claiming your value, your personal power, your resources, and your independence.
Scorpio (October 23-November 22)
Scorpio has a reputation for being the sign of jealousy, perhaps one of the most misunderstood emotions. That goes along with Scorpio being one of the most misunderstood signs. You seem to have been grappling with jealousy lately, whether your own or that of someone else. It doesn't matter which; you would need to address it in either case, and the same awareness is called for. Jealousy has two main components: attachment and control. That differentiates it from envy, which is about wanting what someone else has. Underneath this is a spiritual struggle that's about to come to a head. If you find yourself feeling especially strong emotions, including the desire to control anyone in any form, pause and notice what's going on beneath the tempest. Don't be distracted by the surface layer or cast of characters. The real subject matter is between you and existence, or said another way, what you encounter walking that fine line between existence and nonexistence. Below the drama is the sensation of how close to the edge you walk, all the time. Think of the turbulence as a fear reaction, though it's worth questioning: What exactly are you scared of, and in the spirit of the Serenity Prayer, what exactly can you do about it? There may not be answers to these questions, but the cosmos of your psyche has some relevant information for you.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 22)
You seem to be working through the whole love vs. fear thing—that there are two emotions, and that all other feelings and sensations emerge from one or the other. One does not cancel the other out or compensate for the other; there really is a choice. However, you may be getting the occasional torrent of fear that obscures the love you're feeling. There's a potential lure to the fear in that it's blended with passion, potentially sexual passion. It may reach into some of your deepest, darkest desires, yet at the core is a form of anxiety. I've been studying this one with my spiritual teacher Elisa Novick: it's a tricky one. The love, alternately, has a cosmic feeling to it, and may feel disembodied or impersonal. That may seem to contradict your desire to go for the physical and the embodied, though you still have that option open to you. The "choice between fear and love" may manifest as the option to build on one foundation or the other. If you thought of it in those terms, the choice would be easy. You may be wondering where the fear will go, if you choose to place the home known as your soul on love. There's a vent opening up, through which fear or any other negative emotion can be returned to the universe as unconditioned energy, liberating you in the process.
Capricorn (December 22-January 20)
You may not feel like the flavor of the month, but if you refuse to be swayed by group opinion, you'll discover how much respect people have for you. At the same time, you'll discover a new depth of self-respect. This word—respect—means to see again. There's a re-evaluation implied, with the result being to see something you hadn't seen before. This lends some credence to the idea that respect can be earned or gained as people get to know one another, or get to know themselves. And there is the hint that it may take some time for that to happen, especially if your ruling planet Saturn is involved in the equation (which it is). Therefore, allow some time to pass, during which there may be a bit of confusion, mixed or missed messages, and a little competition for a niche. Remember, though, that your niche is all your own—the thing you do that nobody else can do; the gift you have that is yours alone, and which you may discover in the process of offering it to others. As you move through this territory, just make sure that you don't con yourself into coming to any "final" conclusions about who you are, what you do, or what you have to offer. Make room for a discovery process. There's plenty to discover.
Aquarius (January 20-February 19)
I've often pondered the phrase "authority issues." One definition is not knowing one's place in the order of things. The result can be attempting to act with greater influence than one has, or with far less. We see manifestations of both in our society, and the particularly toxic equation of those on a power trip acting out on those on a powerlessness trip. Noticing this dynamic may convince you that you want to get out of the game entirely. True authority begins with your relationship to yourself. It becomes real the moment you recognize that no other person can dictate that relationship, no matter how hard they try and regardless of what happened in the past. This month's solar eclipse is a reminder to be on the lookout for what you might call "shadow figures" from the past who you've internalized. They may boss you around and attempt to tell you who you are and how to feel about yourself. One attribute of finding your authority will be taking back your consciousness from hijacking by these inner voices. The first step in this process is recognizing that they are not you. They may seem convincing but really, if you listen carefully, you will be able to hear the difference. Then you'll be able to feel the difference, in the form of feeling a lot better about yourself.
Pisces (February 19-March 20)
It is amazing how the division between that which is erotic and that which is spiritual is so successfully pushed as a political agenda. Perhaps it's even more astounding that it still works. I reckon it'll work for as long as people feel misgivings about themselves. It will work for as long as sex and/or some form of allegedly spiritual idea are accepted as ways to gain power over people—and people are willing to give that power away. You've reached a point in your growth where this is simply untenable. Rather than trying to dismantle the power trip, I suggest you focus on the essentially spiritual beauty of pleasure, be it of body, of soul, of the emotions, of nature, or all of the above. This is not a matter of theory—it's about appreciating your existence and recognizing as birthrights feeling good, feeling open, and being able to share yourself. It's easy to let yourself be distracted by those preaching hellfire, including its more subtle form as guilt. Consider the extent to which, if you ever experience these things, they are an inheritance from previous generations. Those who passed them on to you lacked your knowledge, your freedom, and your appreciation of life. They were more subject to superstition and had fewer resources available. Simply put, they were not you, right now, living the life you are living.
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