workshop Rhinebeck, NY

What We Carry

A Ritual Retreat for Mothers Grieving the Living

Dates

May 29–31, 2026

Tuition

Member: $375.00

Standard: $420.00

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Discover the healing power of kinship in a weekend of movement, rest, song, and ritual for mothers who are loving a child through addiction, mental illness, or estrangement.

Joy Lynn Okoye introduces What We Carry, a retreat for mothers and caregivers navigating complex love, loss, and renewal.

This retreat is a weekend of rest, reclaimed joy, remembrance, and sacred reflection for mothers grieving the living—those loving a child through addiction, mental illness, estrangement, incarceration, or rupture in the family system.

Through practices of embodied movement and storytelling, deep rest, communal song, creative expression, and the healing power of kinship, we create space to meet what has been carried—to feel, honor, and integrate layers of grief while remembering love and reimagining hope that endures.

Guided by movement and voice alchemist Joy Lynn Okoye and ancestral vocalist Sheniqua Trotman, you are invited to move, sound, and express through the arts what words cannot hold—to remember through story and rhythm, to breathe through the ache, and to let body and voice find liberation and become one prayer. Expect to learn creative tools drawn from the SoulEase™ Method, a trauma-informed approach that goes beyond traditional ideas of coping with ambiguous loss.

Within this sacred kinship of mothers and maternal caregivers, we witness and are witnessed, drawing strength from our shared presence and the collective remembrance that freedom—like love—can still rise from pain.

At the heart of this work is the practice of holding grief and gratitude, loss and love, and release and remembrance in the same breath. Within this kinship, sorrow and joy coexist, each deepening the other.

No previous experience in movement, yoga, or singing is needed.

More Information

Workshop begins Friday at 7:00 p.m.

Please note: This retreat offers a full spectrum of movement—from deep rest to expressive release. Most practices are gentle, restorative, and accessible to all bodies. However, some sessions may include more vigorous or cathartic movement, inspired by the JourneyDance® approach, to support the physical release of stored emotion. These active moments are always optional and adaptable—participants are encouraged to move at their own pace and honor their body's needs. Modifications, seated options, and breaks are available.

Recommended Reading:
The following readings offer inspiration for those who wish to deepen their understanding of ambiguous grief, ritual, and the Sacred Feminine. These readings are entirely optional and may enrich reflection before or after the retreat.

  • The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief by Francis Weller
  • Soul Broken: A Guidebook for Your Journey Through Ambiguous Grief by Stephanie Sarazin
  • My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem

Things to Bring

  • A photo, artifact, or meaningful object to place on our communal altar (something that represents your love, loss, or lineage)
  • A journal and pen for inner reflection and soul writing
  • A water bottle and comfortable clothing suitable for movement and rest
  • Optional: White or ceremonial clothing, or something sacred to wear during our water ceremony

Workshop Rhinebeck, NY

May 29–31, 2026

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What We Carry

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    Joy Lynn Okoye

    Joy Lynn Okoye is a movement and voice alchemist, sacred storyteller, and yoga nidra meditation...

  • Sheniqua Trotman

    Sheniqua Trotman

    Sheniqua Trotman, founder of Elevated Expression, is a social justice activist and vocal empowerment...