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Five people sitting around a glowing campfire under a starry night sky, surrounded by trees—evoking the ancient tradition of storytelling in community.

July 23, 2025

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Why We Tell Stories: Healing, Self-Reflection & Connection

Storytelling helps us explore our inner lives, make meaning from experience, and connect with others. Discover how narrative fosters healing, insight, and belonging. 

Featuring Pádraig Ó Tuama, Cheryl Strayed, and Lisa Weinert

Where would we be without stories?

Since ancient times, we’ve gathered around fires, under stars, and within sacred circles to share them—stories that carried our fears, our hopes, our pain, and our wonder. Long before written language, narrative was how we made sense of the world and our place within it. Through myth and memory, storytelling became not just entertainment, but a means of survival, reflection, and connection.

Today, that ancient impulse lives on. Both oral and written, stories help us navigate life through narrative, honor our pain, celebrate our joys, and see ourselves in one another. They offer a mirror for self-discovery and a bridge to belonging—reminding us that healing often begins with a voice, a truth, and someone willing to listen.

Storytelling as a Healing Art

Storytelling is more than expression—it’s a healing art. When we speak or write with emotional honesty, we give shape to our pain, our joy, and our resilience. By telling stories that matter, we offer ourselves and others a kind of soul medicine: stories that help us understand ourselves and begin to repair what’s been fractured.

Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild, says that writing and sharing experiences is essential for healing. Writing through pain allows us to process difficult experiences, understand ourselves better, and make sense of our lives. Cheryl suggests that you write about personal wounds, fears, and obsessions—even when it feels difficult. In a world that often asks us to look away, writing with courage and clarity invites us to face ourselves and heal, word by word. 

The power of words to wound is also a measure of the power of words to heal."
Pádraig Ó Tuama

Pádraig Ó Tuama, a poet, theologian, and host of The On Being Project's Poetry Unbound podcast, emphasizes the crucial role storytelling plays in both individual and societal healingPádraig says that where there is separation, there is pain, and where there is pain, there is story. Engaging with these stories, particularly with curiosity and compassion, can move individuals toward understanding, fostering a sense of shared humanity crucial for healing. 

Author and founder of Narrative Healing Lisa Weinert teaches us that our stories have a healing purpose and are meant to be shared. Narrative Healing incorporates creativity, movement, and mindfulness as a core part of its process and provides writers and non-writers a comforting yet equally empowering process to find their voice through story and find deep connection with the world around them. 

The narratives we create in order to justify our actions and choices become in so many ways who we are. They are the things we say back to ourselves to explain our complicated lives."
Cheryl Strayed

Reflection & Self-Discovery: Navigating Life Through Narrative

The inner journey of writing begins with a single, brave step: truth. Storytelling for personal reflection allows us to slow down and make meaning from the chaos, to trace the patterns of our becoming. Through creative writing as spiritual practice, we begin navigating life through narrative—not just telling what happened, but asking why it mattered. Writing from a place of truth, we find ourselves reshaping our identity, revisiting the power of myth and memory, and reimagining the stories we’ve inherited. This is how we discover our voice and discover our inner landscape.

Cheryl says writing about your life allows for a deeper understanding of yourself and challenges faced. In fact, writing a book changes the author, as it's an act of making sense of oneself. Life involves discerning which narratives to engage with, and recognizing every story is open to revision. Storytelling provides a space to examine narratives and decide which ones serve us well; and which don't. Rewriting chapters that no longer serve can craft a narrative aligned with values. 

On the Mind Body Adventure Pod with Jeff Warren and Tasha SchumannPádraig encouraged listeners to "locate yourself in stories" and "read your life as stories," which can be surprisingly transformative. By examining the stories people tell about themselves, they can become more open to accountability and change, he said. His morning ritual involves greeting his "unfolding story," and recognizing his burdens and his luck. 

When someone says, 'I feel that too,' the nervous system responds. Your shoulders soften. Your breath deepens. Your nervous system begins to regulate."
Lisa Weinert

Connection: Uncovering Threads of Shared Humanity

Poetic approaches to storytelling and Omega's writing retreats remind us that language is not just a tool—it’s a bridge. The relationship between language and meaning is sacred; it allows us to connect, to resonate, to belong. Through storytelling techniques, we uncover threads of shared humanity—experiences that cross boundaries and invite deeper empathy. Those bridges include:

  • Connecting with ourselves: With this "How to Be Alone" practicePádraig emphasizes the importance of talking to ourselves "between these parties" of life and controlling our "habit of forgetting to breathe," advocating for a more conscious self-connection.
  • Connecting with othersPádraig says stories, especially those desperate to be heard, can lead to a deeper understanding of othersRecognizing the complexities within the "we"that a group is made up of diverse individuals with different perspectivesis vital for building understanding, even when disagreements exist.
  • Connecting universal human experience: While individual experiences are unique, Cheryl highlights the universal thread that runs through all human stories. Sharing vulnerabilities and truths helps discover shared humanity and find connection with others who resonate.
  • Creating community: Storytelling, especially sharing personal narratives, fosters empathy, connection, and a sense of community, creating a supportive environment for collective healing and unity, says Lisa Weinert. 

We need these moments of connection now more than ever. Why? Because in each story told with heart, there is an invitation: to remember who we are, to see one another clearly, and to step into community with open eyes and an open heart. The meaning behind sacred stories—both ancient and personal—teaches us how storytelling transforms us, offering space for grief, hope, and everything in between.